Thursday, September 28, 2006

Expand Your Site With exlinks




Sell Your Creativity Here And Make Money Free !

Have you heard about ? At first when I came across this site, I thought it is another site for bloggers to blog their thoughts down. But I was wrong.

You got your creative idea or artwork but do not know where to sell it ?
is the place where you can sell your creative design and sell it on any printable materials.

T-Shirts, cups, hats,buttons, bags, posters and any printable and sellable items. You can make money by selling your creative design without even leaving from home. It is a good business idea for those who prefer a stay at home working environment.

I was so surprised when I found out that the site offer online shop for free ! All you have to do is go to
, click on button and follow the instructions on the site.

For me it is a good internet business but I just do not have that kind of creative talent in my gene. If you got the creativity, why not use it to make money without leaving your house !




Wednesday, September 27, 2006

Increase Your Site Traffic !

Check out the latest traffic driven site by BlogMad team. This is one of the latest site traffic tool and it's going to drive your site traffic crazy !

You can check out here Exlinks .

Be the first to use it and see your traffic blow !

There are quite a number of ways to increase your site traffic and page ranking (PR). One of the method is to submit your site url to search engines mostly used.

Listed below are some of the sites that allows you to submit your site to most popular search engines :




寶貝計劃


超級可愛的寶寶 !

老公又在催我第二個寶寶了。想生又不想生的我﹐ 好矛盾。 重新開始照顧一個寶寶可不是那麼簡單的。

小柏也快四歲了﹐ 應該給他添個伴吧。有時候看他一個人玩蠻寂寞的。有時候鄰居家小朋友來﹐他會很開心的又叫又跳﹐喜喜哈哈的玩得很開心。他其實很喜歡小朋友﹐也很愛唱歌﹐看書﹐口很甜。

我也快到30+的年紀了﹐再生多一個女寶寶也好。對我來說一男一女已經夠了。

打算10或11月才開始造人﹐心裡還是怕怕。
先別想那麼多﹐還是照顧好自己的建康。擁有
建康的身體才可以孕出建康的寶寶﹕

飲食計劃 ﹕
1) 每天一杯新鮮水果汁
2) 早﹑午﹑晚餐定時吃
3)
每天一杯牛奶或豆奶
4) 每天早上練習瑜迦 半小時至一小時 (6:00 am)
5)
每天定時起床(5﹕00 am)
6) 保持心情愈快﹑樂觀
7) 按摩
8) 聽音樂﹑看書


Thursday, September 21, 2006

關于我的天平座寶寶

我家的小寶貝是個天秤座寶寶

天平座(又稱天秤座) ~約自9月24日至10月23日~

元素:氣(風)象星座
特質:陽性之本位星座;日間的能量
主宰守護者:金星
象徵:有砝碼的雙臂秤錘
性情模式:思考思慮、感官感受
座右銘:「我衡量」

天平座可以說是十二星座中最
投入社會生活的 星座,它象徵成人需要在世界舞台上占據自己地位的意義;進一步說,天平表現出人們要在世界上扮演充分被認知的各種角色。天平座的符徵為秤錘,強調在人生中 平衡的需欲。的確,對天平座而言,衡量各項選擇;有時候引發仔細思考後的意見,有時卻產生猶豫不決和不能確定。天平座要求對所有人事物公平對待,卻往往過 度批判且自以為是。天平展露的金星特質常為人賞識,這些特質包括感性、魅力、優雅、幽默和好脾氣等。

優雅天平-正義高手
圓圓的輪廓、甜甜的酒窩、
醉人的笑靨;現在開始要擔心將來有一堆蜂蝶尾隨在後,然而可別被這優雅絕代、風情萬種的小萬人迷給唬住了,他可是主張公平正義又辯才無礙的新世紀俠客(女)─得理不饒人。

天平用來代表人類的第七個發展階段:四十二到四十九歲。其個性可用來比擬為成人通過了中年階段,繼續朝向人生下半葉努力,以期塑造一個新型態。不可避免地,這包括了藉由重新考慮人與人的關係來重新定義個人的社會角色。金星的守護地位標示了天平座
愛美、社會取向以及對和諧的需求。但反諷的是,儘管天平座喜愛事情和緩進展、少有麻煩,他卻最有本事攪動一池春水,引起爭議,只因為他們異端的態度和舉止。雖然天平小兒多半慷慨大方,卻可能無視於他人的希望,只朝著自己的意思行事。

由於天平小兒想從路的兩端出發,並檢驗事情的每一角度——他們有審度端倪的能力,因此他們會固執地拒絕倉促下決定。他們要求適當的呼吸空間,如果被壓迫在擁擠之處,將會緊張而神經質;如果他們認為是在替天行道,為他人福祉謀取最佳利益,那他們就會施壓予他人。

天平小兒出名的能量與個人魅力,使他們成為最受稱讚的同伴和共事者。然而父母要特別留意他們強加己見於他人身上。只有天平小兒保持輕盈、快樂、有趣時,才是最可愛的;他們很難適應低潮。天平小童最
重視自己是否吸引人,但要教導他們不能只重外表;如果太過重視外在,他們會用自尊去妥協。天平小童的另一項優先順序是公平性,但父母要教他們中庸之道,才能免其落入過度勉強接受或批判別人的行為模式中。


天平座寶寶之一 9/24~10/23

平衡理性和諧圓融‧辯思敏捷美麗優雅——
金星擁戴下的天平幸運兒

擁有優雅、溫柔氣質的天平小童,
往往是爸媽眼裡的
小王子、小公主。
由於他們的心靈永遠在
追求一個平衡合理的解答,
他們會為某件事一直辯解,
直到事情真相大白,
以及他心中那把正義的秤
得到伸張為止。

小天平是全世界最美好的嬰孩,這幾乎是所有人的第一印象。天平小寶寶活脫就是白胖紅潤的小天使,她有著甜美的笑容及屬於維納斯金星般勻稱的五官和體態,天平寵兒是令人窩心的可人兒。
天平小童像十月的秋陽一般和煦,很少踢被、很少尖叫,也不會在餵奶時拳打腳踢。當她微笑時,滿室生輝,安祥而寧靜;迷人的酒窩親吻家人時,活像個小神仙。

有 時候,天平小童會坐在清晨的燦爛陽光下,優雅地擾動著面前每一個湯碟中的小銀湯匙。然而,她只是優雅地把盆碗中的食物碾碎,卻無法決定先吃牛奶?雞蛋?或 先喝橘子汁?還是先吃蔬菜凍?她可以為了因下不了優雅的決定,乾脆放棄早餐。親愛的媽咪,建議您明天早上只要一次提供一樣選擇就好,當她慢慢細嚼一樣又一 樣,你會驚訝她竟然可以在十分鐘內用完一頓早餐。教導天平小孩的訣竅就是當她無法自己下決定時,作父母的要代她作聰明的決定。如果有什麼比這更糟的事,就 是催促她匆忙下決定。由於天平座小孩是如此優雅而天生麗質,所以她會專注地學好一件事,且當成是她的探險,慢慢把路摸熟,然後很快樂地走下去。

很 多人以為天平座是頑固的,其實不然。她必須持平而悠閒,步調不能亂;她要靠自己,而不是他人的干擾來下決定,小至哪隻腳該先穿什麼顏色的襪子,大至什麼時 候該上學,她都無法立刻決定。作父母的要多鼓勵,製造愉悅的氣氛,使她作出正確的決定;輕柔而不尖銳的鼓勵是天平寶寶心靈的最佳補劑。

很 多父母以為天平座孩子溫順的外表是一種堅強的象徵,實際上天平座是最不能被嚴厲催促或厲聲責罵的,否則他們長大後會更害怕下決定。最佳良方是用輕柔溫婉的 方式,一次又一次不斷地提醒孩子,最終孩子會鼓起勇氣,而父母算是幫了大忙,協助孩子度過性格上的最大難關。典型天平座對決定過程中的干擾,會採取情緒化 的反應。
天平座的高效率只有在身處顏色、聲音與思維環境都十分和諧下才能發展;緊張對天平座的影響有如一幅掛歪了的畫作一般,所以作父母的不要急於要求天平座寶寶須成龍成鳳,而阻礙了他們正常的發展。


平衡理性和諧圓融‧辯思敏捷美麗優雅——
金星擁戴下的天平幸運兒

天 平座的心靈一直在尋找真實和真理。他們心地善良,努力追求公平、公正;他討厭傷害別人的感覺,也不輕易判斷是非。天平座的謹慎個性,使得他避免意外傷害或 不必要的麻煩,現在及未來都是如此,所以他的心思是正面思考的。當他表現固執的一面時,就是周圍有了不協調的事物發生:如音樂太大聲、壁紙顏色不對等等; 他們喜歡沈靜的藍色線條、溫柔的音樂、美麗的衣著、精緻的食物等。他不希望看到殘暴的鏡頭,突然的噪音也會使他緊張。天平孩子需要安祥、寧靜,以及大量的 休息。

許多人以為天平座是懶惰的,其實不然,他會興高采烈地玩耍一段長時間,休息只是使他身心和諧;他的周期是活動一陣子,再沈靜一陣子,這是他保持身心健康的方式。如果他少活動,那是為積蓄內心能量作再出發的準備。
金 星是天平小童的守護神,她能使硬心腸軟化,所以天平座寶寶的態度深具魅力,沒有人能拒絕他們的微笑與酒窩。小天平溫柔又親密的態度能使父母變成精靈,允諾 他們的任何要求。所以,他們在親戚朋友間、在學校裏,都是受寵的小公主、小王子;他們不習慣於嚴苛的紀律,也不會容忍責罵。

只要能在安穩 良好的教養下,小天平會成為老師的寵兒。他們有聰慧而富邏輯的頭腦,且辯才無礙、充滿好奇心,是老師心中的好學生。一旦小天平開始認真學習,他絕不會滿足 於平淡的陳述:他總能舉一反三,而且替另外一方找到最好的解釋,以力求公平;他會把事實的真相推向極致,替正、反雙方找到正確的理由。天平的兩邊要永遠維 持平衡,不然天平座的心情就不得安寧。他會為某件事一直辯解,直到他心中那把秤的正義感得到伸張為止。
十月誕生的金童玉女總會使父母、老師的智慧 更形敏銳。因為,大人們會發現天平小孩是如此合乎邏輯又具有良好的思考習慣,真是「予豈好辯哉,予不得已也」。舉凡新聞事件到家中瑣事,他喜歡討論、辯明 事情;他不喜歡閒聊串門子,但擁有許多閨中密友,且會神聖化此類友人;他不急於作評斷,但是一旦認定事情狀況,就會堅持己見。

絕不要侵犯天平小童的隱私權,而他也會懂得尊重別人的隱私權。用餐時間必須保持愉悅,燭光、鮮花可說是他的最愛,巧克力及浪漫音樂也不可或缺。天平小童不需催促就會保持乾淨與整潔;他充滿了音樂性及藝術感,可能會是未來的指揮家,千萬別忽視或埋沒了他的天分。

天 平玉女尤其喜歡媽媽的梳妝台,玩玩粉撲、戴戴耳環、偶爾打翻香水、泡在浴缸中一天不出來…,這些舉止都反映天平座金星維納斯愛美的傾向。等她再長大些,她 會霸占浴室,洗泡沫澡,用完所有新奇漂亮的肥皂。記得喲!她喜歡平和、溫馨、和諧、美好;對她而言,美麗就是和諧平衡的代名詞。小男孩則會成為書精,好比 律師通曉一切。

鼓勵天平男、女孩子寫作是一件重要的事,他們可依此散發內心的邏輯思辨專長。長大後,他們極為浪漫,且擁有許多瑰麗的初 戀;他們很多愁善感,但總會雨過天青。保持他們平衡、和諧、安祥是的家庭支柱所能提供最重要的支援;然後,他們會成為雄辯淘淘又溫馨可人的家庭美少年、美 少女。

Tuesday, September 19, 2006

Daddy is Back !

Finally you daddy is back from Japan on last Saturday night, 16 Sept 2006. That Saturday night, when daddy arrived, you kept shouting 'Daddy Is Back ! Daddy Is Back & buy toys for me from Japan !'. Mummy was so suprised by your reaction.

You kept asking 'Daddy where is my present ?'. Daddy have bought you 2 Ultraman toys, 1 giant monster, 1 small robot , gift from daddy's friend and a pair of red color sport shoe ! You are such a lucky boy with so much toys !

Daddy bought mummy a pair of nice pink color shoe, very comfortable to wear on. Mummy love it much !

Thursday, September 14, 2006

Justin Pre-School Experience

Today is 8th day of my son in school since 04 Sept 06. Now he eager to go to schoool every morning and started to tell me what he learn at school. What a great relieve for me ! Been worried about him last week since his 1st day at school :

Monday, 04 Sept 2006
I stayed with him for about 30 minutes in the school since he kept on crying. He kept looking for me and holding my hand while playing with the toys. Hmm....thinking maybe he is too attached to me. Not sure whether other moms also facing this kind of problems.

Tuesday, 05 Sept 2006
My sister son, Eugene also in the same class with Justin. So I asked him to play around with him in order to calm him down. With him for 15 minutes then I just went back. He kept on crying and said 'I want to find mummy'...But I have to left him to the teachers in the school. Luckily the teachers know how to calm him down...

Wednesday, 06 Sept 2006
He seems quite ok already. After wake up, no more crying. And I tried not to mention about the school to him, afraid that he will cry again. But he knows that I am going to send him to school. Actually he enjoy the school much just that I am not around him. He kept asking be to stay with him when I drive him to school.

After 4 days, my son knows that I am going to fetch him after school. So every morning he will ask me to go back after I sent him to school. He started to walk himself in to the school and say good morning to the teachers. It's a great progress for him.

Thursday, September 07, 2006

Lead A Nature Walk

Have you ever wonder to bring your kids to have a walk close to nature ? Whether it is a big or small garden, a park, reservation forest or even just a nearby neighborhood garden, it helps to open their eyes to our natural world around us.

A walk close to nature can teach or show the kids about life and nature around us. Moreover it is an activity without any cost or money, just your petrol fee if the place quite a distance.

They can learn how to appreciate mother nature and at the same time you can teach them about birds, trees, leaves, twigs, sky, soil, mushroom, flowers and even you can let them touch those tiny little insects or bugs living in the grass fields or trees. It is a great outdoor activity for the kids !

Kids nowadays spend most of their time watching TV, playing computer games or immerse themselves in activities without much social interaction. My 3 year old son also the same, stick to the TV most of the time besides playing with his toys. So I keep thinking about ways how to make him not too attach to the TV. I ask myself what will attract him most ?

Since my son is only 3 years old, so I guess he must be very curious, eager to explore and see new things. So one weekend both of us drove to a nearby garden and we have our first nature walk there. He felt very happy and I showed him the trees, rocks, leaves, twigs, birds, dragonflies, grasses. Since then he always looking forward to the garden. He likes the tadpole the most. Every time he will take a branch stick and try to play with the tadpole. It is a great outdoor activity for my son and I finally find my way !

We likes to play some games as well on the field. We always play a game called mushroom hunt, see who can spot a mushroom first. Or counting how many flowers on a tree, looking at how the ants moving around. You can ask your kids to listen to birds chirping, wind whistling and others nature sounds as well. I am sure they love to hear it !

You can organize a ‘Family Nature Walk’ in your neighborhood area as well since most kids like playmates or partners. You can socialize with parents nearby and at the same time sharing parenting tips or problems together.

I came across The Children’s Nature Institute site and it’s really attracted my attention. It is a non-profit organization and has provided innovative environmental education programs for more than 250,000 young children, parents and teachers in Los Angeles and Ventura Counties, US. Although the institute is not in Malaysia, but it is a good example for us to follow and we can learn from them and organize one.

‘ Our mission is to educate young children through interactive experiences with nature, and to inspire a sense of respect and responsibility for the natural environment.’

The Children’s Nature Institute


Let Your Kids Back To Nature Today !